Gifts
My gift to you this holiday season is a THREE-DAY erotica shopping spree, where the more you buy, the more you save!
Don’t worry about coupons because your shopping cart will automatically deduct your savings. Choose from:
Buy 2 books, get 10% off
Buy 3 or 4 books, and get 25% off your order
Buy 5 or more books, and get 50% off your order
Savings and compilations are excluded. Audiobooks are included.
Newsletter subscribers received an extra day to shop! Make sure you don’t miss the next subscriber special by signing up for my newsletter at the bottom of this form!
Not sure what to get me for the holidays? My first answer is always, buy, read and review my books! My second answer is to gift me something from my wish list.
Consider the amount of paid subscription platforms there are. Then consider how much I provide to you for free: BDSM Checklists, Blog Posts, Newsletters, Community Kink Chat, DomCon Reviews, Interviews with Professional Dommes, Online Book Club, Creative Surveys, and DM access to me (not a sub or an automaton) in several smedia sites, and GIFTS!
It’s a lot; you’re welcome. Thank me properly.
“The Dominion and the Sugilite ~ Episode 15”
We’re midway through Season Two… and it drops some bombshells! Take care to read this incredible space opera in order.
What is Stone up to?
Why is Gaius unable to speak?
Can Pebbles practice her BDSM lessons with an audience?
Answers to these questions, plus Bay’s real name; making Futa shakes; an injury; and more in the next heated installment of “The Dominion and the Sugilite”… with Episode 16 coming soon.
Get your copy today… better yet, include it in a bundle of my books and take advantage of my Holiday Sale!
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The DMs have been down for over two weeks, and the admins have only posted a notification a couple of days ago… alerting us to the fact that the DMs are down. *sigh*
In the past, DM shutdown has been followed by a sitewide shutdown, so at least that’s not happening (though as soon as I drafted this post, it briefly showed a 500 error).
For those of you who DM your Creative Survey votes, I ask that you add them as comments to the direct post.
I hope it gets fixed soon, because I miss talking with you! Thanks to those of you who have reached out in other smedia.
Also, there has been a mass exodus from Twitshitland to BS or Blue Sky. If you have migrated or just discovered it, follow me there!
Here’s what you said after the last blog post.
sizeerrorprojection ~ Nice preview B.J.! I can’t wait! Sounds like A Christmas Carol with a kinky ending after all Nolan’s lessons! [Only one more day, sep!]
Just saw rubbug’s boxing pictures… whadda I think? I think I’m a little afraid, and alotta excited. He did a great job! [hahaha! Thanks again to rubbug!]
Thomas Antonson ~ In answer to your question about what advice I’d give to someone who’s read your DomCon reviews and is considering going, I’d say “Go for it!” But I’d also add that my experience was enhanced by attending with people who’d been there before. Being part of the group made things a lot easier. I don’t think I’d have approached any of the Dommes myself, but having B.J. there to introduce me allowed me to meet and interact with people I’d only read about. Even if you don’t have someone to show you the ropes, the people who staff these events are great at answering questions. So if you go, don’t be shy, and have fun!” [As always, sage advice, Thomas; thanks! By the way, DomCon L.A. is June 4-8; hope to see you there!]
rubbug ~ Sounds like Mistletoe Bound is going to be awesome. But all your stuff is. [Thank you! I’ll time the pre-order better next year so I can get more feedback before the holidays! You know me and patience…]
Book club was fun and it is sad that we’re done with Eli but definitely had fun with it, and talking about it after. [I agree, it is bittersweet… but Mistletoe Bound is a favorite for the next one, and Jessie should be there!]
I’m glad you liked the quick renditions. Are there domme boxing gloves around? Perhaps a willing punching bag would be some good motivation. [Domme boxing gloves are whatever she chooses to use, right? And the punching bag would be her willing sub :p]
toymax ~ Thank You so much for the gifts, Mistress B.J. [You are very welcome, Max!]
On Mistletoe Bound: It sounds very tempting for a pre-orderer to read the first previews, but it sounds even more tempting to get surprised by the book itself. Plus, it‘s a small kick for a masochist to endure this torture. [I think you will appreciate them more after you read the book… but you are not a masochist! :p]
On B.J. as a boxer: There‘s no doubt that rubbug knows exactly what he‘s doing. The boxer pictures prove once again that he is an AI artist. *chapeau [*grin*]
Multiperv ~ I like the B.J. as a Boxer graphics and personally prefer the one on our left and no, not just because it has footwear. [I didn’t even think footwear, but now that you mention it… yeah, rubbug did a great job!]
I liked your response to sep’s trying to shift the credit to servicepet and Thomas (though I almost certainly would have reacted the same as him if it were me, though less artfully). I’m sure they do both deserve a lot of credit however sep was the ‘senior sub’ and I’m sure helped set the tone for them as well did a lot of organizing, training, coaching and even supervising of the junior mints, I mean, subs, and deserves the praise and thanks you and others gave him. [Well said, MP; you are correct!]
I’m glad you asked Thomas his advice to newbies or those considering going to a Domcon now that he’s been once. I hope he responds to that. [He did; see above]
Thanks for another good newsletter. [You’re welcome; it makes me happy that someone appreciates them!]
Send me your comments, and I’ll put them in the next blog post!
B.J.’s Online Book Club
CORRECTION: The next Online Book Club is actually the 22nd. Saturday, February 22, 2025. Thanks to Multiperv, who immediately entered the next Book Club date into his calendar, and realized I had the wrong date.
Mark your calendars accordingly… and VOTE now for which book we will discuss.
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‘Tis the Season
I always prefer that you buy, read and review my books as the best present you can give me. However, many of you have requested a Wish List so send me more tangible things for the holidays.
For you, I created a Throne Wish List.
As you shop for me, I ask you to also send me feedback on one of my books as well!
And as always, thank you.
BDSM Checklists
Check out my FREE BDSM Checklists.
I 
created two BDSM Checklists to assist with communication and negotiation. One is grouped by fetishes and the other is an alphabetical listing, and both have spaces for you to fill in additional ones.
Make sure you check out the Checklists! Then, let me know what you think and how you used them.
Do you have a kinky question you’d like answered? Use the contact form to submit your question. All questions will be kept anonymous unless you’d prefer to be named.
For other kinky advice, check my blog archives.
Happy reading,
~B.J.
