“The Dominion and the Sugilite” [D/s for short] takes place on the planet of Cybele where women rule, men labor, stones and jewelry are central, and sex is required to live.

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Reviews matter, plus, you will please me by writing them–win-win!  *grin*

Speaking of reviews… Sally Bend reviewed the end of Season Two of “D/s” this week.  My favorite line (well, ALL of it is my favorite…) is this:

“While all this is going on . . . [no spoilers] gets put in her place in a scene-chewing confrontation worthy of the best night-time soap opera catfight.”

I love that she gets the writing’s embodiment of a soap opera!!

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The Museum of Sex

Over Memorial Day weekend, I saw a few amazing plays, ate scrumptious food, met a friend, and took a trip to the Museum of Sex.

DM me if you are interested in the plays I saw and/or want to know about the food I ate… because I’m skipping to the last two.

I’ve known my friend for several years yet this was the first time we met in person.  Despite his anxiety and self-proclaimed social ineptitude, he was nothing but his usual calm and easy-going self.  Well, there was a *twinge* of anxiety after walking a few blocks down Broadway–crowded normally, but add in Saturday night on a holiday weekend, and crowded doesn’t cut it.  He conquered his anxiety by turning down a side street and taking the time to focus on his map app.

Then there was a *burst* of anxiety when he attempted to proceed down the side street heavily laden with grates from curb to building.  That burst was mine.  Seriously.  I can’t walk on grates, and it has nothing to do with heels–which I wasn’t wearing because I knew we’d be walking.

The street had construction, so we couldn’t bypass the grates easily.  We had to circle back and walk in the middle of the road for a stretch.  I was “grate”ful for his acceptance and lack of ridicule.

As kinksters, where else would we wind up but the Museum of Sex… which was rather disappointing.  After a live greeter who checks age, you’re greeted by a sex store with overpriced and uninspired sex toys.  It’s mostly vibrators of various sizes and shapes and, of course, lube.  There weren’t any chastity devices, and I want to say zero BDSM equipment; though I could be wrong about that.  If there were any, it was only one or two items.

The tickets were $50 and included the Super Funland, which was cute in places, disturbing in others, and mildly fun.  There were two short movies:  One about the history of sex at carnivals, and one that played with your senses.  The best part of the latter movie was the guy sitting next to me who was definitely NOT into being blown on from the back nor having his butt rumbled.

We played some games where you could win gimicky prizes, and they were amusing.  I’m proud to say that I yanked the right amount of dildos to win my friend a stress vagina  😀

The museum itself was severely disappointing… but that may be due to expectations. Silly me, I *expected* the museum to be more like a history of sex.  There was no chronology, build-up, and certainly zero climax.  In fact, there were several items that were from 2025!  I wanted to know more about the history of items, and many descriptions didn’t go into much detail.  Also,

several pieces didn’t include years or authors/inventors.

I did find several nuggets, though, as you can see in the pictures.  And there were a few items that sparked story ideas.  The How-To Guides are from the ’70

s.  I think the first one should have some pictures of B.J. Frazier books as a way to masturbate with style *grin*  And I’d like to know how penis sucking differs amongst wives, mistresses and sweethearts  😀

I had the hot, sticky pleasure of reading Silk Kajirus’ latest book, “Professors in Panties: Feminized Faculty”.  Anyone who attended college has had a professor or two who thought they were high and mighty, and who definitely needed to be brought down “a peg” or two.

Silk goes to extreme measures to ensure two of the vilest instructors learn their own lessons.

Emily, a young coed, stumbles onto evidence that could destroy the professors, despite their tenured status.  Instead of turning them in, she orchestrates a most sublime revenge scheme with the help of her fellow sorority sisters.

And that’s where the fun begins!

It’s a fast-paced book that will leave you dripping.

Read my five-star review, then buy the book!

DomCon Industry Only Writing Class

DomCon L.A. is June 4-8, which is right around the corner.

With DomCon quickly approaching, you won’t see me in smedia very much the next week and a half.  Also, bdsmlr has been acting up lately, so you might need to DM your Creative Survey votes until that gets fixed.

…But you CAN see me in person at DomCon!  I hope to get the first review out the week of the 9th, and I look forward to your comments.

This time I’ll not only be a vendor, but a presenter!

I will be teaching an Industry Only Class:  “A Story Worth Telling”.  Of course it’s about writing!  So many people approach me at conferences and say they tried writing or have a great story or want to write their autobiography.

It will be interactive, informative and hopefully fun.

I’m so excited to teach this class and see everyone at DomCon.  Let me know if you’re going!

Here’s what you said after the last blog post.

sizeerrorprojection ~ Loved your pegging advice on the blog this post, Miss. Thomas’ comment about pegging being potentially dirty made me smile. I wonder if people realize an enema flush prior might be a good idea?  [Oh geez, I certainly hope so, sep!]

rubbug ~ Congratulations on the release of episode 22! I know I’m a little behind but I’ll read quick to catch up. Haven’t ran into futa shakes in a while and I’m curious about what’s going on there.  [Thanks; looking forward to your feedback, rb!]

That class sounds great. Everyone has a story to tell and what better way to learn how than from an award winning author who happens to be a former teacher as well!  [Awww]

Thanks again for keeping us aware of the constant danger of bots and nefarious people. I think it’s easy for us to use the wrong head on some sites so it’s cool to get that reminder from you from time to time. Good job on IamHerProperty for calling it out and reporting.  [You’re welcome.  And yes, it’s important to notify administrators, because they can’t fix it if they don’t know about it]

toymax ~ I’ve already read Episode 22 and I have not been disappointed. But … I’m still waiting to see whether I’m right with my suspicion. When will You reveal this secret, Mistress B.J.?  [haha, I love how much you love this soap, Max!  All secrets will be revealed in good, soap opera time, my friend!  :p]

As a newsletter subscriber I know why You had to write Episode 22 twice. It‘s a shame that You had to put so much effort on it, but the result is – again – awesome, Mistress B.J.  [Sally said rewrites are always better… I still would’ve preferred NOT to rewrite the entire ep, but glad it turned out well]

It‘s always a great pleasure to support You, Mistress B.J., and I can‘t wait to read about Your fantastic class at DomCon.  [Stay tuned!]

Seblin ~ Thank you for taking the time and effort to write and publish your blog. I’m sure there’s others like me that read and enjoy it but lurk in the shadows and don’t speak up very often.  [Seblin, I’m glad you reached out!  And thank you for this.  I never know who’s reading and enjoying, so you touched my heart  💜]

Hammerf ~ I can’t wait to get my hands on this!!! Sorry you had a writing disaster 🙁  [Thanks… I can’t wait for more feedback, Hf!  See ya in Book Club!]

Send me your comments, and I’ll put them in the next blog post!

BDSM Checklists

Check out my FREE BDSM Checklists.

I created two BDSM Checklists to assist with communication and negotiation.  One is grouped by fetishes and the other is an alphabetical listing, and both have spaces for you to fill in additional ones.

Make sure you check out the Checklists!  Then, let me know what you think and how you used them.

Follow-up to the last ASK about how to talk to your girlfriend about pegging… (if you missed the Q/A, see this post)

After the last blog post, the person who sent in the ask responded:

“I’ve seen that you’ve answered my pegging question on your last blog post. Thanks a lot, I’m sure that was helpful, not only for me, but for other subs, too!”

When asked how the relationship was progressing, he said:

“Good, thank you! We’re having a lot of vanilla sex, mostly oral, but I love that!”

Thanks for sharing!  I’m glad to hear that you’re taking things slowly with the kink.  There’s nothing wrong with vanilla sex, and every good sub should love giving oral  :p  Enjoy the journey, and keep me updated with your progress.

For other kinky advice, check my blog archives.

Happy reading,

~B.J.