Secret Revealed!

Be **IN** a B.J. Frazier Novel!

 

I teased you after DomCon L.A. that Mistress Cyan and I talked about something which I’d tell you later.  Well, that time is now!

In celebration of publishing 50 books, I am writing a trilogy that includes many of my characters.  What a better setting for them to meet than at DomCon?  I shared my idea with Mistress Cyan, who gave her permission and support to use DomCon in my books.

But there’s more!

YOU have the opportunity to be IN a B.J. Frazier novel!

You have two options:

$100 ~ to be written into a scene*

$50 ~ to be given a shoutout

The Fine Print:  The only thing you may choose is your character name.  One scene or shoutout entitles your placement in one of the three books.  If you want to be in all three, you will need to purchase three scenes or shoutouts.  Purchasing a scene or shoutout does not include a copy of the published book.

Limited spots available.  If you’re interested, don’t wait, because they will be gone quickly.  Contact me to get yourself in the next B.J. Frazier book!

*This option is only available to people with whom I chat so I know what scene to craft specifically for you.  All creative control is mine; meaning, I will not take suggestions.

 


 

 

I have uploaded my first audiobook to Audible.  It’s bittersweet, actually.  Positive because Audible opens the door to many more listeners.

Also, highly negative because the royalties paid are minimal at the exclusive level, and abyssmal at the non-exclusive rate.  It pays only 25% of the sale price, which I cannot control.  Audible automatically prices audiobooks without input from the publisher/author.

Keep in mind, I’m not using their production services.  The files I’ve uploaded have already been produced at my expense.  Audible is taking 75% for the ability to list my audiobook on their platform.

Again, I’ve decided to do this for readership.  However, I much prefer you to purchase my audiobooks through my website.

Bounty Program

 

Audible offers a special “bounty” feature for verrry specific conditions:

1) You become a first-time Audible member;
2) Your first audiobook purchase as a first-time Audible member is one of mine;
3) You use my referral link to make your first purchase as a first-time Audible member of one of my audiobooks; and
3a) I have to request the link once my book is live, and then I have to customize the link for each Audible market (i.e., country)

If all of the above conditions are met, then I would receive $75 as a “bounty”.

In other words, it’s highly rare.  However, if you’re considering becoming a new Audible member, I ask you to please wait to make your first purchase until I can obtain my link.  Let me know if this applies to you, and I’ll be sure to get you the link when it becomes available.

I uploaded my first book this week; however, it can take up to 10 days for it to be approved.  Until then, keep yourself occupied with one of my books or audiobooks on this site.

Stay tuned!

 

 

Final Stop: Domination is available in audiobook!  I speak as Andrew “spoke” to me while I wrote this story.

Andrew is a neurotic young man who is socially inept and keeps to himself.  On the outside, he’s quirky, unassuming and usually placed in the “friends category”.

On the inside, though, he observes, judges… and wants to be dominated.

Overtime at work causes him to catch a later bus, with different passengers.  An unappealing couple argue loudly and capture Andrew’s attention.

When he overhears more than he bargains for… he winds up in his first BDSM encounter!

Preview available now.  Listen to it today!

 

 


 

 

 

If you missed the last, *hot* post, you can read it here.

Thank you to everyone who responded.  I love connecting with you.  Here’s what you had to say:

Multiperv ~ I’m thrilled you got invited to the Escape Retreat by Goddess Phoenix. I am so glad she and others have taken to you so much. I hope I get to see those purple sneakers at some point, or at least see a picture of them.  [You’ll see them in NOLA!]

It sounds like you’re becoming the unofficial documentarian for some of these kinky get-togethers. And I’m betting you’ll have a service sub of your own by the time you attend the next one, even if it is just on a trial basis to start.  [Are you offering?]

I chuckled at the “As the slave erotically swept the pool out” quote. Perhaps he’s trying to suggest lines for an upcoming book.  [Yes, Robin and I had many book discussions, and that was him being funny to provide a line in an erotic book]

Wow, really sorry about all the frustration and hassle with the book(s) being taken down and, as you said, all over an issue that could have been solved in advance with some communication.  [So much can be solved with communication!]

Congrats again on ending the Eil series and for finding such a great writing partner. And thanks for a great peek behind the scenes of the writing collaboration process and perspectives.  [Thank you.  Jessie is amazing, and we’ve already talked about more books!]

sizeerrorprojection ~ Wow, B.J.! What a special weekend you had! Seriously, I am so happy for you right now. I think it’s just incredible the friends you’ve made and I am so NOT surprised. I think I see a new flogger in your future. Thank you for sharing your experience. And thank you to the Goddesses, Mistresses, submissives and slaves that gave permission to share them.  [Thank you… I think the future must definitely include a new flogger *grin*]

submissiveforDomme ~ Aw, you put my comment in your newsletter. I love when you do that even though I am very embarrassed by it as well. Every single time you write about dominant women for the conventions, and this time at the retreat, I am filled with so much desire to be a submissive to a Domme everything you say about them makes me wish even more I could submit to someone who is truly in this lifestyle. I will definitely check out the websites you shared. I’m not into blondes but there is just something about Goddess Phoenix. She’s a special person, and it comes across in what she does and even in photos of her. Goddess Manku has the look I’m more typically drawn to and always have been. Goth women are just so intoxicating on a million levels. You said Mistress Rozz is no-nonsense and prefer to dom with positivity so maybe I’ll check her site out. [You’re welcome. I look forward to your reactions]

I’ve also noticed that there are never any photos of you anywhere. I wish I could see you, but your wishes and wants are more important than mine.  [Come see me at DomCon NOLA in October!]

“In fact, some of the goddesses commingled, sharing and/or trading subs.” Is a dream of mine.Maybe because you make it seem so real and tangible? You’re good at portraying the Dommes as real people with their good qualities and what they strive for. And how they continually to learn and improve.  [I have great subject matter to work with, so it’s easy!]

That Phoenix was amazing and watching her whip him and how she moves and concentrates and how careful she is. Makes me want to be whipped by her one day. Or at least someone as accomplished. I admire her so much simply from your writing about her. I can only imagine how I’d feel if I ever got to meet her.  [That’s *Goddess* Phoenix to you, sfD… but yes, she’s incredible]

rubbug ~ Goddess BJ, I’m glad you had a good time! And it’s cool they addressed you as such, definitely the proper vibe you got. Everything sounded cool, the activities and people, except that bull cock cane sounds extreme. It’s funny, but I’ve seen Goddess Manku maybe a few years back on social media, and I had no idea she was a professional Domme! Cool that you got to meet her and that she was as cool as she looks.  [You are very sweet!]

Goddess Phoenix ~ I loved reading your write up of the experience. It exceeded anything I could have imagined. When you write, it’s like a drug that you can’t get enough of; you keep wanting more and more reading material.  [*HUGE HUGS*]

L.K. Lynch ~ Sounds like you had a GREAT weekend. The “service sub” thing is not my bag, but I appreciated that you appreciated their commitment and dedication to their Mistresses. I laughed out loud when I read your telling of being invited to use the flogger on the one sub (Robin?). So, you really got a kick out of that, eh?!? I saw a couple of the short videos.  [Totally awesome weekend, yes! Why wouldn’t I get a kick of out flogging; and with Goddess Phoenix, no less!]

cb-6000-lover ~ What an amazing weekend! Phoenix is a dream, and a session w Manku would be a thrill also. Amazing they were fine w allowing pics and vids — but still no pic of you? Congrats on being invited to such a select gathering.  [They are Goddesses to you, cb! And I don’t think you’d be able to handle a session with either one of them :p Come see me in NOLA]

Goddess Manku ~ Oh My goodness, beautiful, you are so sweet! I love your message and your blog. I just read it, and I feel like I just relived the retreat thanks to your amazing storytelling skills. And a special thank you for how you described Me hahahahaa you totally made Me giggle.  [So happy!]

Oh, and I have added your website/blog link to My linktree and will direct My followers there as well to read your review, I know they will love your work. Thank you so much for your support.  [Thank YOU!]

LeftField ~ It looks like you had a really great time, Miss. In looking at the photos and videos, they only reinforced my belief that a sub really needs to find a Mistress that is on the same wavelength and truly enjoys the same kinks.  [100%!]

Domina Dahlia ~ Absolutely so grateful to have met you. I could have spent every second with you. 🙂 Thank you for the awesome review! I also checked out some of your novels… WOW!!! You go, girl!!  [*BIG SMILES*]

Robin ~ The pleasure was all mine. I am just happy to have had the opportunity to be a part of such a wonderful event. I am glad You enjoyed it. I look forward to reading both of those books soon. Toe smooch.  [I’m looking forward to your perspective]

toymax ~ Thanks for telling us about the heavenly weekend. See, I told You, they will treat You like the Goddess You are. You did a very good job in reporting. I loved to read how You flogged and caned Robin – especially how You determined his pain level. Yes, I am proud of You, Miss B.J. You have already been a highly skilled Goddess, but You‘ve definitely grown.  [Thank you, but I couldn’t reach Robin’s pain level :)]

Tell me what you think about this post, and see your comments in the next one.

 


 

 

I am proud to report that I took Silk Kajirus’ *review cherry* on his first book, “His First Date Futa (Futa-on-Male Erotic Romance)”, which begins the “Girls on Top” series.

Silk is a long-standing voter in my Creative Surveys that post every Tuesday and Friday in [NSFW site] bdsmlr.  His responses in Twitshitland (@silkkajirus) have always been fun and thoughtful, so it’s no leap for him to publish.

You may have guessed that Silk is not his real name.  Taken from his bio on Smashwords, he explains his pen name “…comes from an oft-dismissed aspect of Gorean culture, that of the male slave (a kajirus) kept by a free woman (his owner) for bedroom duties (a silk slave).

“His First Date Futa” is an adorably sweet and *hot* story about a futa.  If you’re into futas or curious about them, this is a great book to read.  It’s quick, romantic and has an edge that hints at an upcoming struggle.

The book is part of a series, and Silk tells me that book two is already half-written.  So get to reading!

Be sure to read my five-star review.

 


 

It’s Green Season!

That’s right, another season of MSU Football has begun, and that’s why you’ll see more GREEN posts in my smedia sites.  See any great GREEN posts?  Send ‘em my way!

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We play Washington on September 16, which is problematic because I love huskies, and they’re purple… but GREEN must prevail!

The Big Game is October 21 when we play our biggest rival, U-M.  Make sure I have plenty of GREEN posts that week!

 


 

“Eli” Just Got FIVE***** Stars!

 

Eli – Book One ~ The Seduction was reviewed this week by Sally Bend.

Sally said:

Almost as soon as we’re introduced to Eli Shaw, we just know he’s blissfully oblivious to the truth of his own sexuality. He’s pining for a girl who is clearly using him, paying far too much attention to his hunky, well-hung roommate, and never questioning any of it.

We know there’s a moment of hurt coming, a broken heart at the very least, a brutal public humiliation at the very worst, but we also see opportunity all around him. How will he recognize it? Where will it lead him? Who will it be with? Those are the questions this opening volume begins to explore, and the answers are fabulous.

Read her entire review, then begin the series today!

Did you know that liking a review in Goodreads helps promote the book?  It does.  Reviews are important, too.  Please leave a review after you read my books, and be sure to “like” my other reviews.  Thank you for your support!

 


 

 

 

You have voted “Her Wish. His Command.” to be our next Online Book Club.  It was a close vote, and I have a guess as to what the next book will be… but, as always, it’s up to you!

If you haven’t read it yet, you have plenty of time because the next Book Club will be Sunday, September 24 at 11:00 p.m., Eastern.

If you want to be a part of the online book club, please contact me:

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BDSM Checklists

 

Check out my FREE BDSM Checklists.

I created two BDSM Checklists to assist with communication and negotiation.  One is grouped by fetishes and the other is an alphabetical listing, and both have spaces for you to fill in additional ones.

Make sure you check out the Checklists!  Then, let me know what you think and how you used them.

 

 


 

 

 

Do you have a kinky question you’d like answered?  Use the contact form to submit your question.  All questions will be kept anonymous unless you’d prefer to be named.

Thanks for the great questions and comments!

For other kinky advice, check my blog archives.

Happy reading,

~B.J.