I saw a New York Post article recently about whether sex in space was possible. You know, something for astronauts to do with all that time up there. Suffice to say it’s *possible* but very cumbersome and not pleasant.
Full disclosure: I share the article with you so I can snarkily say that, obviously, the space experts have never been to the planet of Cybele to experience the amazing *sex* that occurs *in* that *space*.
And what do we have here?
The perfect segue to…
“The Dominion and the Sugilite – Episode 10” is now live!
The cauldron of drama boils over in this episode of B.J. Frazier’s Fantasy/Sci-Fi Erotic Soap Opera with a Femdom slant! Take care to read this incredible space opera in order.
Why is Petronel frustrated at work?
What crime does Aurora want Geo to commit?
Why does Chantal need Ailsa’s help?
What is revealed about Acacia’s nasty behavior?
Don’t wait! Get your copy today and discover the answers to these and more in this extra long episode.
Did I set the price higher? No. I kept it the same. You may thank me by writing a review, and liking others on my Goodreads page.
B.J.’s Online Book Club
Jessie and I had so much fun discussing “Eli – Book Three ~ The Perversion” this past weekend!
At the last Book Club, Jessie promised that if Book Three won, he would share the behind-the-scenes real-life story of how E’s came to be. It was cool that Book Club members were interested in the “backend” of things.
It got a bit emotional with a Book Club member sharing a relatable experience from her life that paralleled what Eli dealt with in Book Three. I’m glad that she felt safe in our chatroom, and I’m proud of the others who reached out with cyber hugs and warm thoughts.
After all the hate tossed at Bernie, I was surprised that people regarded him more compassionately in Book Three. I’ll quickly add that no one thinks he’s a saint or has redeemed himself completely but there were some positives. And that did my heart good.
As always, Clem was discussed as the crowd favorite, after Eli, of course.
Does an erotic Book Club sound fun to you but you’re too scared to participate? Don’t be! There are no cameras, and everything is anonymous. Plus, you get to VOTE for the next Book Club book.
The next Online Book Club is Thursday, October 3, 2024 at 4:30 p.m., Eastern.
DM me to be included in the next Book Club:
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Strange Typing
Y’know when your phone’s screen is unlocked, you can butt dial someone? And sometimes, random letters show up if you carry it 
with other things? Well, I was carrying a lot of things, and my phone was pressed against a plastic bag… and I heard it typing.
When I got settled, I expected to delete the random characters and was shocked to read this:
I am a dominatrix is is needs to be normal normal his his to to normal taming his desire to be normal taming his desire to be normal normal his desire
I’ve been told it’s some type of predictive text, which is supposedly based on things you regularly type but 1) I don’t type dominatrix often; and 2) I don’t stutter.
Still, had to share! *grin*
“The Ghoul of Gastown” is Mike Bowerbank’s latest mystery in the “Hopeless Cases”
series but it can be read as a stand-alone.
You know I am a fan of Mike’s books, and this one is no exception. In addition to his quirky and realistic characters, Mike provides historical insight into how Gastown became haunted and the ghosts that are still talked about–and seen–in tours of the city.
A quick scan of the preview shows several pictures and maps. Mike and his son went to Gastown and photographed the area for the book. I even got to vote for which picture would make the best cover!
Read my Goodreads review and then check out the book for yourself!
After 10 episodes of the space opera, I thought it’d be nice to publish a supplement
book. It will have synopses of everything so far, along with a chart of characters to help you keep things straight.
I will also reveal the reasons for character names, the history of Cybele, and how I developed the series.
The supplement will also showcase the talented rubbug and provide a preview of new and improved character images that will be featured on future covers!
If you haven’t started the series yet, now is a good time to catch up. Start with where it began, Episode 1.
I am also nearly 30% into the first draft of this year’s Christmas novel, “Mistletoe Bound”. I don’t want to give away any spoilers so I’ll just say it’s a “Holiday Switch” type of a “Wonderful Life”.
I plan on doing a presale for this one, with a twist. Readers who buy the preorder directly from my site will get it delivered ahead of other online bookstores!
It’s Time to Get Green!
Spartan Green, that is. The season opener is this Saturday, so you will see a lot more GREEN in my smedia.
See some good green posts? DM them to me.
And GO GREEN!
Here’s what you said after the last blog post.
Multiperv ~ I really like the ‘happy banana’ image you posted with the Age Gap article. [Thank you, someone sent it to me in Tumblfux, I think.]
I applaud SEP for his thoroughness in preparation and execution of his birthday spanking and then photographing it for proof, and I look forward to buying the recording on Clips4Sale ;). [haha, perhaps sep has a new calling]
Kleinschwanzcucky ~ I’ve just read your blog. You’re so funny, Miss! 😀 You didn’t need lube, lol! [I’m delighted that you enjoyed my joke, KC, especially since English isn’t your first language. :D]
Concerning orgasm gaps: [From my previous blog post] I believe, it’s because of the old fashioned roles (married housewife and stay at home mum) and the fact that most men are pretty selfish when having sex. I mean, I might have been like this in my early years. But the last women I’ve had sexual relationships with had at least the same amount of orgasms–maybe more than me–and I’m perfectly fine with that. Actually, I see it as compliment when a woman has an orgasm that I helped provide. One of the most important things is open communication and women never, ever should fake orgasms to “please” their sexual partners. Just as you said, that only backfires in the end! And of course women should embrace their sexuality and sexual needs more confidently. But I’m sure, you will elaborate on that in your upcoming book. [Well-said, KC! It would be interesting to know how many men polled were subs]
Anonymous ~ As far as the orgasm gap goes… in my household, there are very few orgasms at all unless self administered. When we do engage together, I frequently go without. At least 4 to 1. [Thanks for sharing. This poll would definitely have different results if they used kinky participants]
sizeerrorprojection ~ About the orgasm gap, I prefer to stay horny and motivated to serve my partner. [Spoken like a true sub, sep!]
Regarding your interview, you didn’t sound sick at all, B.J. I think you did great and made some new friends! It was great to hear you tell your history with kink and how you’ve progressed and integrated your life experiences into your books. Thank you so much for doing the interview and sharing it with us. My face hurts from smiling while I listened. [aww, thank you, sep. You make ME smile :D]
toymax ~ To the podcast: Your voice does NOT sound scratchy – just a tiny little bit. Your voice sounds perfectly hot. Watching and listening to the podcast was awesome. It felt ‘real’. I could feel how much fun you all had. You did an absolutely great job, Mistress B.J. [You are very sweet, Max! And I’m glad it felt real to the viewer, too]
Have I heard the beginning of something new here? An audio project with You and Goddess Aroya? [Maybe so. I look forward to talking with her more about it]
I loved to see them applauding and praising You for the IPPY award. 🙂 [That was very cool for me, too!]
To the Orgasm Gap: First of all: My experience is not based on many partners. That’s why I thought about whether I should comment at all. Women should never fake an orgasm – how would their partners know how to please their Lady? Furthermore, with a submissive mindset it is unthinkable that – in my case – the man comes more often than the Woman. [Great point on the submissive side of things, Max. More men need to have that mindset, whether subs or not]
@stough64 ~ I listened to podcast yesterday at work. Unfortunately I had a few interruptions. But what I remember was FUCK….BJ IS AWESOME. [Thank you, Lisa! And thank you for the amazing follow-up post in Twitshitland after you relistened to it :D]
Send me your comments, and I’ll put them in the next blog post!
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Happy reading,
~B.J.
