Christmas in July Sale
Merry savings to all! The more you buy, the more you save.
No coupons to remember; your savings will automatically be calculated at checkout.
Here’s the breakdown:
2 books ~ 10% off
3 or 4 books ~ 25% off
5+ books ~ 50% off
The sale is good on all regularly-priced books and audiobooks… even new releases!
Be sure to take advantage of huge savings before July 19th!
The Dominion and the Sugilite – Episode 36
This episode of my Fantasy/Sci-Fi Erotic Soap Opera with Femdom themes is packed with heat and secrets! Be sure to read this incredible space opera in order.
Why is Cinders thrown out of class?
What does Cozima want hidden?
With whom does Aurora meet in the forest?
Plus: Geo talks with Naqqi; Neelam’s evaluation of Dayra; Ophira!; and more in this installment of “The Dominion and the Sugilite”… with Episode 37 coming soon.
Included in the xmas in July savings!
If you haven’t started the series yet, you can jump in by getting The First Season at a discount, and don’t forget to get the Supplement, which contains all the behind-the-scenes tidbits as well as charts and episode synopses.
Reviews are important, especially in the erotica genre. So go to Goodreads and write reviews for all of my books that you’ve read. Also, “like” the other positive reviews. Not only could you influence a potential reader but you’ll make me happy. Remember, our new goal is 1,000 reviews!
I Don’t Like How Much Information Your Site Collects
I’ve heard this from people who don’t want to provide their personal deets to set up an account on this site… from getting a free book to using a coupon to taking advantage of xmas in July savings.
First, I want to be clear that I do not collect any data. There are many things about the website’s “backend” that I do not control–shocking as they may sound. But fear not, my friends!
Throughout the years, many readers have confessed that they input fake names and addresses on my site (and many others). It works. The only thing that must be real is the zip code that is associated with whatever credit card you’re using to pay with. So get your free book***, take advantage of the xmas in July sale, buy me a drink–all without worry!
[***PLEASE NOTE*** the free book coupon associated with signing up for my newsletter will not work until July 20th, when the xmas sale is over]
Speaking of July… It’s my Birthday Month!
You might be saying, how can I send you a birthday gift, B.J.? My first answer is always: The best gifts are you buying reading and reviewing my books!
My second answer is inspired from many people who said they wanted to do something more for me… and that is, get me something from my wish list.
A huge thanks to everyone who has already sent me gifts. I never expect them, and it makes it that much more special to receive that cyberhug from you. I am so lucky and grateful! 💜
Have You Heard my Latest Interview?
Placemarker 4 Perversion is a kinky, adult postcast. Audry Lu Black and I discuss erotica, protocol and kink in general. Take a listen and tell me what you think!
Newsletter subscribers received the link on the day the podcast dropped. So here’s what people had to say so far–thank you to everyone who listened and gave me feedback:
toymax ~ You did very well. The parts about your first pegging and writing Eli were fantastic. When you mentioned your niece took quizzes I had to smile.
rubbug ~ I thought the podcast went really well! I liked how you guys had this natural chemistry.
fj616 ~ Great podcast interview this morning! I think that if more people understood the importance of communication then they would be much happier and fulfilled in their relationships.
Oklahomardnk ~ Your interview with Mistress Audry Lu Black was fantastic. Loved hearing some of your backstory. Seeing some of the fun candid side to you. Explaining how you integrated teaching about the lifestyle into your writing.
kittysback ~ It was a great interview, very informative on how you write, and was very surprised to hear that you used to be an English teacher
ChasteSolo ~ I listened to the podcast. I didn’t quite understand it all – you were speaking too fast for me. I did, however, pick up on a few things, particularly the fact that you used to be an English teacher, which might explain why you’re such a natural writer ☺ But I really enjoyed listening to you and hearing you laugh. I sensed a free-spirited atmosphere and a lovely rapport between the two of you.
Anonymandrill ~ I found listening to you two quite soothing … as though I might be safe were I ever to actually venture into this world of play.. I love how much laughing you two do in conversation. I also loved hearing both of you describe the feelings you have when you wear a strap on.
secondterm ~ I was particularly intrigued by your ‘first time pegging’ story!
Obvious Bot Shit
I am a strong advocate warning would-be submissives against bots claiming to want you as their slave. Dominants do not seek out submissives. They don’t have to. So think before you respond, go off-site or give out any personal information.
Here’s the latest gem from oklahomadrk:
mistressjessica ~ Hi Slave / How are you
oklahomardnk ~ Slave?
mj ~ Are you not the BDSM lifestyle??
okr ~ Sure, but awfully presumptuous of you coming at me with “hi slave”
mj ~ Sorry about that / So what do you prefer I call you!?
okr ~ You can call me Sir.
mj ~ That’s nice so what’s your real name??
okr ~ Just Sir for now, you’ll need to earn that…
mj ~ Oh nice well I’m mistressjessica by name and I’m looking for a submissive sissy slave to own and train again in the BDSM lifestyle but you seems not to be into the lifestyle
okr ~ I’d say a mediocre and lazy Mistress at best… and okr continued to denigrate the bot.
I know many of you simply block these blogs, but it’s important to remember to report them before you block so other members of our community don’t fall for the bait!
Beware, and stay safe!
Have you had an obvious bot interaction? Let me know, and I’ll include it in the next blog post!
B.J.’s Online Book Club
The next Book Club will be Friday, August 28, 2026 – time to be changed because I will be traveling. Can we meet early Friday or the afternoon of Thursday the 27th? Which book we discuss is up to you. Vote now!
DM me to be included:
bdsmlr ~ Not Safe for Work
Imaglr ~ Not Safe for Work
Tumblr ~ Questionably Safe for Work
FetLife ~ Safe for Work
Right Here ~ Safe for Work
BlueSky ~ Not Safe for Work
Here’s what you said after the last blog post.
sizeerrorprojection ~ I think Max should definitely push the button quickly, or come to Domcon and get a demo at The Kink Shop! [haha, sure he could, sep, but you know it’s not the same as when someone actually does it for you.]
Nerts2u ~ I am very happy to hear I got to be the source of entertainment for your entourage and that you enjoyed another DomCon. All the best [I wish you were there to see our tears of joy, N2u]
My aunt ~ Interesting podcast. You did great. 100 novels not bad [haha, let’s see if you actually read this far into my blog post!]
Send me your thoughts on this blog post, and I’ll include it in the next Community Kink Chat!
BDSM Checklists
Check out my FREE BDSM Checklists.
I 
created two BDSM Checklists to assist with communication and negotiation. One is grouped by fetishes and the other is an alphabetical listing, and both have spaces for you to fill in additional ones.
Make sure you check out the Checklists! Then, tell me what you think and how you used them.
Do you have a kinky question you’d like answered? Use the contact form to submit your question. All questions will be kept anonymous unless you’d prefer to be named.
For other kinky advice, check my blog archives.
Happy reading,
~B.J.
