The Ethical Werewolf Society
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Jessie Spectre and I were *ravenous* for another project, and we “sunk our teeth” into this Halloween short!
A new imagining of werewolf and vampire lore, “The Ethical Werewolf Society” presents an alternative to death and carnage; one that is sure to pleasure everyone, regardless of species.
Susi’s life should be perfect. She’s about to be a tenured professor, and her boyfriend is on the fast track to partner at a top law firm. The only trouble is that fun times in the sack are too short and too rare, making her wonder who the girl is in the relationship. She desires a manly man, someone who can dominate her completely and satisfy her fully.
When Susi looks for solace in a local bar, she is overheard telling her desires to Lupa, a local bartender, and gets more than she bargains for. A drunk guy offers to give Susi what she wants, and Lupa promises to make Susi’s dreams come true.
Before Susi can make any life decisions, she becomes the prime suspect in a brutal murder. Forced to flee her home, Susi travels with Lupa to Transylvania… where more life choices unfold.
Torn between her dreams of academia and the delights of Transylvania, Susi encounters Dragomira, the third person to offer Susi the time of her life.
Warning: Do not read in public, in the dark, around your pets or anyone with large incisors, and especially not when you don’t have one hand free!
Rainbow Reviewss is reading the final “Eli” book, “Triumph”, so I had him take my quiz to see what other books he’d match up with.
What do you think it paired him with? “Eli”! :p
I thought my quiz would somehow realize RR was already enjoying that series and recommend a different one. However, despite my saying how UNscientific the quizzes are… it seems to have *pegged* it perfectly for RR 😀
Take my quizzes and pair yourself with a book or character. Take the opposite gender quiz and answer it how your ideal dominant would answer, and you’ll be paired with your ideal dominant!
Then share your results with me because I don’t collect any data!
There’s even a quiz to test your knowledge about ME. And you can snag a coupon based on your results!
You may be seeing a lot of green in my smedia posts, and that’s because it’s MSU Football season!
My Spartans are 2-0 to start off, looking for a win Youngstown State this weekend.
So if you see a *hot*, green post, DM me.
GO GREEN!
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Bots are Using AI Chat Features
I am a strong advocate for alerting wannabe submissives against interacting with bots in smedia.
The best advice to remember is dominants DO NOT troll for subs.
If you are messaged by a seemingly hot and dominant blog who seeks your undying devotion, beware! You may attempt to respond. But if that account immediately asks you to go off-site or demands payment before it gives you attention, do not give in to your lower head. It is a bot!
Even I receive messages from bots. Last month I received a more sophisticated message, indicating bots are now utilizing the services of ChatGPT or other AI means of communication:
“Hello. I hope you’re having a great day. I am Goddess-supreme, unforgiving, and in complete control. I am seeking a new submissive slave to collar, own, and train for My pleasure. Under My strict discipline, you will be broken and reshaped to serve only Me. Your safety is guaranteed, but you exist solely to obey and fulfill My desires without question. This is ownership, not a game. I do not ask-I decide. If you are worthy to kneel before Me, reply now. If not, move on and remain beneath My notice.”
First problem: Dominants do not seek subs.
Second problem: The opening doesn’t fit. Why would “she” hope you’re having a great day? Obviously, you couldn’t possibly be having a great day without first being broken and reshaped to serve “her”. It doesn’t fit… but AI seeks to conform. And the majority of correspondence begins with something nice.
Third problem: “remain beneath My notice.” It was a beautiful paragraph and grammatically correct up to that clause, which is not proper speech.
Fourth problem: DOMINANTS DO NOT SEEK SUBS!!
Be careful out there. Do not go off-site with an account you don’t know. Do not give out personal information. Do not send selfies (which often contain personal information in the background). Do not send money.
Tip: If you really want a professional relationship, most Dominants offer intake forms to understand you and your desires to determine if you are a fit.
BDSM Checklists
Check out my FREE BDSM Checklists.
I 
created two BDSM Checklists to assist with communication and negotiation. One is grouped by fetishes and the other is an alphabetical listing, and both have spaces for you to fill in additional ones.
Make sure you check out the Checklists! Then, let me know what you think and how you used them.
Question: I am at a dilemma. I am super kinky, I think, and the wife is super vanilla 🙁 what do I do?
B.J.’s Answer: Thanks for the question! The “I think” part to your being kinky indicates that you haven’t experimented with kink in real life. Therefore, I’ll preface the answer with: There is a huge difference between fantasy and reality. It’s one thing to be on bdsmlr and have your imaginary boundaries pushed on a daily basis, and it’s another thing entirely to have someone lock and control your cock.
That outta the way, I suggest taking a spontaneous (but well-timed and thought out) trip to your local sex store with your wife. You’ve seen it so often and have always wondered what’s inside *and* you thought who better to explore it with than your significant other. Sometimes, going outside of one’s comfort zone is much easier to do with a partner; it removes a bit of the taboo.
Once inside, let her lead the way. Meaning, don’t expect her to suddenly become kinky and dominant once she walks through the door. Rather, let her explore. Follow her and support anything that strikes her fancy. The key is to open a kink line of communication. That way, you can start sharing and hopefully exploring together. By no means should you drag her 
immediately to the cock cage section and beg her to be your keyholder. Baby steps. Her curiosity. Begin the kink conversation.
Another great way to start a kink conversation is to read one of my books together! I have readers who have read “Mistress Managed” in bed together and found their kink. Not only is it a great book with a legal drama/thriller and a mafia boss, but it is a wonderful introduction into BDSM and an erotic romance.
Good luck, and let me know how it goes!
Thomas’ Answer: I could press the easy button here and just say, “B.J. is right about everything,” but that would be a very unwise move on my part. I do agree with everything she wrote, and I will just add a few of my own ideas.
Sit down with her and share your thoughts/desires. Keeping it a secret, particularly if you’re going to act on it in some way outside of the marriage, can be very bad for your mental health and your marriage (even if she never finds out).
One way to have this discussion is to go some place for the weekend. Bring two notebooks (one for each of you). Think about some WAMF (what am I feeling) or HDIF (how do I feel) questions you can both answer. The majority should not be about sex. It can run from the mundane (HDIF about how we divide the household chores), or open-ended, like, “I wish you would (or wouldn’t) …” to deeply emotional things, like “HDIF about our relationship at this moment?”
Each of you would write your answers in a notebook (set a time limit for each question) and then swap, and talk about what you wrote. As you get into it further, you can add sexual things. Use it as a way for BOTH of you to talk about what you like/don’t like about your sexual relationship. This is where you can start to reveal your kinky side (not all at once!). The idea is to start small and use her reactions to guide your next steps.
If you can ignore the religious aspects, the Marriage Encounter movement has some good questions to encourage dialogue. Here’s a link to their list.
For other kinky advice, check my blog archives.
Happy reading,
~B.J.
