Merry savings to all! My gift to you this holiday season is a sales extravaganza where the more you buy, the more you save.
No coupons to remember; your savings will automatically be calculated at checkout.
Here’s the breakdown:
Missionary:
Buy 2 books, get 10% off
Small Group:
Buy 3 or 4 books, get 25% off
Orgy:
Buy 5 or more books, get 50% off
The sale also includes audiobooks.
Please note that box sets and compilations are already discounted and are not part of the sale.
Please also note that coupons will not work while the sale is going on. If you’re a new subscriber to my newsletter, you will have to wait until December 27th to get your free book.
Shop today through December 26th.
Speaking of gifts, many of you have asked what you can gift me (and many thanks to those who have already sent me gifts! 💜). Because of that, I set up a Throne account, where you can choose how to pamper me this holiday season. Don’t forget to also read my books and leave reviews on Goodreads!
If you visit my wish list, you’ll see dog toys as the first two options, with a note to let me choose appropriate ones for them. Because Koki is a master chewer and destroyer, LOTS of plushies are needed! See the Pupdate section below for more detail.
Thanks, and Merry Kinkmas!
“The Dominion and the Sugilite ~ Episode 30”
Two major plot points are shockingly exposed in the Season Three finale of my Fantasy/Sci-Fi Erotic Soap Opera with Femdom themes.
How does Neelam help Dayra?
What is Aurora forced to reveal?
Why is Pebbles freaked out?
Plus: Silas’ learned skills; Gemma’s reaction; and the revelation of two long-hidden secrets dynamically concludes Season Three of “The Dominion and the Sugilite”… with Season Four and Episode 31 coming soon.
Haven’t started the series yet? You can jump in by getting The First Season at a discount, and don’t forget to get the Supplement, which contains all the behind-the-scenes tidbits as well as charts and episode synopses.
Guest Blog Post and Podcast
Last month I wrote a guest blog post for Erotica For All, entitled “TV Christmas Movies – Why We Love Them”. Read it and send me your thoughts. What do you think of TV Christmas Movies?
Newsletter subscribers were notified when the article came out. Newsletter subscribers also received a very special black Friday coupon. Don’t miss another special goody; sign up for my newsletter today at the bottom of this page.
I will be appearing on Placemarker 4 Perversion podcast next year. They were kind enough to promote “An Ornamental Christmas” in their December shows. Here is a list of all of their podcasts.
The November 15, 2025 show is with Mistress Cyan, founder of DomCon. She is an incredible woman and worth listening to. I have had the honor of interviewing her several times while at DomCon. The first interview was at my first DomCon, which was in NOLA in 2022. You can read it in this blog post.
Early reviews are in for my latest Christmas novel, “An Ornamental Christmas”. Check them out, and “like” them!
Reviews are important, especially in the erotica genre. So go to Goodreads and write reviews for all of my books that you’ve read. Also, “like” the other positive reviews. Not only could you influence a potential reader but you’ll make me happy.
Welcome to Imaglr!
There has been a mass exodus to [link NSFW!] Imaglr. Refugees of bdsmlr and Tumblfux have migrated there. I tried out the site earlier this year but wasn’t impressed. Happy to say that the admins have fixed many things, and–best of all-the site works!
My first foray into any smedia was bdsmlr. I have remained there despite its plethora of infrastructure issues. I think I will always be there, but they make it difficult. Last week was the first time since the inception of my Creative Surveys that I wasn’t able to post on bdsmlr. It has been offline all weekend (and still is as of publication).
So, I’m now on Imaglr. If you’re there, follow me and DM me so I can reconnect with longstanding friends and make new ones!
I also created an All My Links account so you can always have my up-to-date smedia info. Check it out.
Pupdate!
Warning… entering cuteness territory!
As indicated in the “what to get me” section, Koki is in much need of large plushies. In previous pupdates, he was seen with his teddy bear–which I was using as a gauge for his growth. Last month, however, Koki determined the bear’s stuffing needed to be removed. He was given a cat from “The Aristocats”, which was de-stuffed in minutes. And then he was given the narwhal, which lasted a couple of hours. All three stuffies were destroyed in one day!
Completely potty trained, Koki has made it to his largest crate! He happily ran in and explored the entire space, and even took a
nap in it on his own. Depending on his mood, he accepts the carpet as a mat or views it as an evil attacker needing to be shredded.
The boys are getting along really well. Here you can see them getting ready for an MSU Basketball game. The once highly protected water bowls are now considered family property. 🙂
Koki’s first snow was adorable, and I took pictures of his pawprints–alone and next to Ledger’s. He woke up one morning to the white stuff, which stopped him in his tracks on his way to the “toilet”, where he sniffed and licked for a while.
The picture of them in the snow shows their size difference. The purple “paws” on Koki are his boots. He had a bit of high-stepping after they were on, but quickly accepted them–he really is an easygoing dog overall. The problem with the boots is they’re so hard to get on. I’d love to hear a trick or alternative to protecting little paddy paws, please!
Also, Newsletter Subscribers got bonus pix of Koki… including holiday wear! Make sure you subscribe today (at the bottom of this page) to be in the loop for specials in the next newsletter!
Let me know if Pupdates are something you want to continue!
B.J.’s Online Book Club
You voted “An Ornamental Christmas” to be the next book we discuss at Book Club!
The next Book Club will be Sunday, January 18, 2026 at 4:00p Eastern.
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Here’s what you said after the last blog post.
sizeerrorprojection ~ Koki DOES look quite the scholar! Takes after his Mom, he does. [Thanks, Yoda sep *grin*]
Loved your article on Erotica for all, Miss. It warmed my heart, relaxed my tense shoulders, and made me smile. Thank you for being you. [Aww, you warm my heart, sep]
toymax ~ Koki is truly a champ and who would not love to get candy from such a cutie. I can imagine that he loved it. [He loves meeting everyone, Max! :)]
Miss French-Vanilla-Claire – I love it. It’s sad the setting for Your class in Nola wasn’t ideal. But I’m sure you still made it worthwhile to be there. [I always meet cool people. For that, it’s always worthwhile]
I’ve read Your guest blog (from the newsletter) and liked it a lot. You describe the cozy, pre-Christmas feeling very well. [Thank you, Max]
KleinschwanzCucky ~ The picture of Koki with your purple pen is so super cute! [That was a bonus pic for Newsletter Subscribers; glad you enjoyed, KC!]
the-chatelaine-thecla ~ Enjoyed the DomCon NOLA write up! I used to love going to DomCon LA and those who have been to both tell me that NOLA is even more fun, which I readily believe because New Orleans is the most fun place on earth. Dreaming about those beignets now… [Thanks for reaching out. Happy to give you a sugar-filled dream, TCT :)]
cb-6000-lover ~ Hi BJ, just checking in. I’ve followed your newsletter and DomCon reviews. Glad to see it’s going well on all fronts for you. Cute dog! Big 10 football was a big surprise to me, at least the IU portion [Thanks! So glad to hear from you, cb! Next year’s football season will be awesome!]
Send me your thoughts on this blog post, and I’ll include it in the next Community Kink Chat!
MSU Gets a New Coach!
Pat Fitzgerald became MSU’s new football coach in a press conference on December 2nd, which was his birthday!
He comes with a tremendous record from Northwestern and is a former football player. Not only does he understand the game, but he understands the Big Ten–and especially the importance of the MSU/U-M rivalry!
I’m so excited about the Spartans’ future. Until next football season, it’s MSU Basketball Season, so you’ll see some green posts through March Madness (hopefully–heavily crossing fingers here so as not to jinx anything).
If you see a good post, DM me!
Go Green!
BDSM Checklists
Check out my FREE BDSM Checklists.
I 
created two BDSM Checklists to assist with communication and negotiation. One is grouped by fetishes and the other is an alphabetical listing, and both have spaces for you to fill in additional ones.
Make sure you check out the Checklists! Then, tell me what you think and how you used them.
For other kinky advice, check my blog archives.
Happy reading,
~B.J.
