The Dominion and the Sugilite – Episode 38
This is a fast-paced, tension-filled episode of my Fantasy/Sci-Fi Erotic Soap Opera with Femdom themes! Take care to read this incredible space opera in order.
Will Obadiah’s manipulation work?
What does Pebbles’ future look like?
How does Aemon view happiness?
Plus: Cozima’s humiliation; Neelam dominates Carrick; Ailsa talks to Gemma; and more in this installment of “The Dominion and the Sugilite”… with Episode 39 coming soon.
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Silk Kajirus – “Taken by the Dominant Shemale MILF”
I read the first iteration of this book and spoke with Silk, because I just couldn’t get through it, which is NOT like him. He quickly washed away any unpleasantness by stating he rewrote it from a femdom perspective. He was trying something new for commercial purposes and learned it’s best to stay true to who you are at heart.
Therefore, I am now happy to report that this book is truly worthy of the Silk Kajirus name. And the secret–and key–to this book is the femdom is a shemale. So much better!
Thanks to Silk for improving the story. Read my five-star review on Goodreads, then read the book!
A Little Somethin’
Brutal Love by The Vampire LeStat
Rubbug sent me this song and said it makes him think of Aurora and Geo from “The Dominion and the Sugilite” space opera. I can definitely hear the connection. Give it a listen and let me know what you think!
Bots Can Be Anywhere
I am a strong advocate for bots taking advantage of submissive men online, where they stalk their prey and collect unearned dollars by the bucket loads. Here’s another bot scam; one that targets authors.
My spam folder is filled with messages declaring how great my “book” is, and how the person wants to promote it so it can really go viral, because my writing is phenomenal but isn’t getting the audience it deserves.
Sadly, this isn’t a new scheme, but it has “gone viral” in the past couple of years. Many people write one book, and that’s it. So the bot language is appealing when the emails speak of “your book”. And I will admit that, even though I have over 100 titles, I felt an emotional tug when I read my first bot email.
It didn’t take me long to realize that the author didn’t specify which book. Also, the flattering language–along with the cute emojis, tons of exclamation marks, dashes, and bullet points–was hugely vague. All of the details were nothing more than regurgitated prose of my own synopses! *sigh*
I include it now because maybe it will help authors not fall prey to ego massaging bullshit. Because there is a call to action. Always that lovely call to action. Hey, just message me back so I can share with you all that I can accomplish for your book at a low, low rate.
Excuse me while I vomit.
There *are* real promoters out there who can manipulate SEOs. I’m just saying, be careful. Those real ones tend not to send out cold call emails. And speaking of real ones, you really have to be careful because some of the emails make it seem like they’re coming from a real person. A quick search may reveal that that person is actually employed at a literary agency or from whatever publishing spot they were copied.
I’ve searched some. And I found one. Her profile actually included, “my email has been hacked. If you received an email claiming it’s me, it isn’t.”
I will share one of the better ones I recently received:
Dear B.J.,
I hope you don’t mind me reaching out out of the blue. I’m Alice Oseman, a writer and illustrator based in the UK, and I’ve been hoping to connect with more fellow authors and have the occasional conversation about the craft.
I came across 14-Day Lockdown with Goddess Serena and was intrigued by the way the confined 14-day premise gives you so much room to build escalating tension and change between the characters. I haven’t read the book yet, so I don’t want to pretend otherwise, but the concept made me curious.
When a story takes place within such a contained situation, how do you keep the tension evolving rather than simply repeating itself?
I’d genuinely love to hear how you approach that. No pressure at all. I simply thought it might be nice to start a conversation between two writers.
Warm wishes,
Alice Oseman
Author & creator of Heartstopper.
This one is great because it uses a specific title–the one that’s listed first on my Goodreads page. And it’s creative with “a detail”, even though it’s not accurate. Also, the call to action is unique–just one author chatting with another.
I looked up Alice Oseman, and she is real. Over a million copies real. Of children’s literature and illustration. Definitely not someone who would be seeking me out–or anyone, for that matter.
So, submissives are not the only ones who are targeted by mass marketing AI Ponzi schemes. We all have to be smarter. Good luck!
Have you had a funny or interesting interaction with a bot? Send it to me!
B.J.’s Online Book Club
Last week, we discussed “The Cucksitter Training, Too”. I was surprised that everyone really loved Blanca. I mean, she’s a great character, but I didn’t anticipate all the love. It was cool.
We also talked about the two books together, along with predictions for the third one, which is already out. So there are three: “The Cucksitter Training”, “The Cucksitter Training, Too”, and “The Cucksitters”. The last one was nominated for the poll, so you can vote and then read all three!
The next Book Club will be Saturday, October 17, 2026 at 4p Eastern. Vote for the next book in the latest poll: https://www.bjfrazier.com/kinky-links/quizzes/
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Here’s what you said after the last blog post.
sizeerrorprojection ~ Your tagline is tongue and cheek all the way, B.J., and
widely accepted as such in the kink community in my experience. There have been a few blank stares before the smiles crept in… 😉 [Thank you, sep. Are you on board to make erotica mainstream?]
Oklahomardnk ~ Another mention? it’s an honor. Happy birthday by the way. ☺
It’s really great what you do to educate those that may not be in the know on things. The bots, ways of the lifestyle, etc. [Thank you, Okr!]
Anonymous Reader ~ Thank you for your time and the info Mistress B! Your erotica is exquisite! [Thanks for taking the time to message me after the last newsletter. It warms my heart to know people are actually reading!]
Send me your thoughts on this blog post, and I’ll include it in the next Community Kink Chat!
BDSM Checklists
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I 
created two BDSM Checklists to assist with communication and negotiation. One is grouped by fetishes and the other is an alphabetical listing, and both have spaces for you to fill in additional ones.
Make sure you check out the Checklists! Then, tell me what you think and how you used them.
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Happy reading,
~B.J.
