Another year of erotica has flown by, and I didn’t learn how to magically go around the world to give hugs to all. But I can give you a cyber present!
You decide how *big* you want it… and get what you want. The more you shop, the more you save! The best part is: No coupon codes to remember!
The book compilations are not included in the sale, since they’re already discounted, but the audiobooks are!
Now is the perfect time to check out one of my authors: Sean O’Toole, L.K. Lynch and introducing Jessie Spectre.
The “Eli” series is a *HOT* collaboration, even if you’re not gay. I’m a straight female, and I had to stop several times while writing and editing. Plus, it’s an amazing story. If that’s not enough, there’s even a wise, old femdom!
Of course, this month is the perfect month to read “A Domme for Christmas”. So be sure to add it to your cart.
The shopping cart will automatically deduct your savings all month long. They are as follows:
Buy 2 books, get 10% off
Can’t decide between two books? Don’t! Get them both with a discount!
Buy 3 or 4 books, and get 25% off your order
Can’t decide between several books? Don’t! Get them all with a discount!
Buy 5 or more books, and get 50% off your order
The best deal… half off all qualifying books!
As first described in a previous blog post, many of you requested I create a wish list. I’d rather you buy, read and review my books.
For those of you wanting to do more, you may view my list here.
Many *hugs* to those who have gifted me! I’m deeply touched.
Leftover Domcon Comments
I love how much you guys love to read the kink convention reviews. Here are some final comments from the final review post.
If you missed the posts, here are the links:
First review.
Second review.
Third review.
Fourth review.
toymax ~ Thank You for Your very detailed review of Mistress Cyan’s demonstration and especially for the Interview with Mistress Mia. Normally we don’t get such personal information, some of them made me sad, but others made me smile. I had to think of my childhood, when I was one of the boys who stood in line to get tied up by a girl (I always liked that, although I was far too young to get sexually excited) when we played something like cops and robbers.
I loved the look into the secret ‘Play party’. I believe that you can easily forget the time in that dungeon.
And last but not least: I’m absolutely sure, You would be a great professional Domme. [You are very sweet!]
rubbug ~ I am very glad to be the first of the next 200 reviews, I really do hope these reviews help expose your books to more people, because they are so good! [It makes me very happy to discuss my books with you!]
The interview you did with Mistress Mia was phenomenal. I’m really glad to have had a glimpse at her story, and felt a connection to her with some of what she had been through. I had the same issue of being taller than most, and being bullied. In my case, someone else defended me… I guess that’s the difference between a Dominant and submissive lol.
The one thing I noted in all these interviews with the Dommes is that there is an innate kindness to them, juxtaposing the image one gets of a Dominatrix. Makes them a little less intimidating, knowing there is very much a caring human being clad in Domme gear. Thank you for taking the time to interview and convey to us the beautiful people that they, and you are as well Miss BJ 🙂 [You are welcome. My intent was to show the person behind the Domme to lessen any anxiety people felt in contacting one]
sizeerrorprojection ~ Hey B.J., just wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed your 4th blog post on Domcon. Such great interviews. I loved the contrast between teaching and session in the Mistress Cyan interview, and the hometown “acceptance ” of Mistress Mia. Thanks for sharing. [You’re welcome!]
Multiperv ~ I’m curious if ANYone has said “You know, after reading these, I think I’m going to have to go to one of these events myself”? [A couple of people have told me, yes!]
I agree with LeftField about rope play. I did like your response that it’s good to remember about endorphins, sub space, etc.
That story about Mistress Mia doing her first pro scene, and her framing it in the form of service topping to please her dom, was great. It seems like every kinkster has at least one good story, even if it’s (I’m guessing) something about why they haven’t or DON’T do something.
That story about Mistress Mia and the religious person is very interesting and of course I – and am sure many others – are dying to at least get a hint of what “beyond the normal fare” meant here, though part of me thinks maybe I really don’t want to know. [There are things Mistress Mia and I discussed that will remain confidential–and it’s not her stipulation but one I am imposing… but I very much enjoy teasing everyone *grin*]
That was a nice recapping of the play party. The dual flogging with the multicolored fiber optic floggers was the coolest thing I saw there, too. My second favorite was a guy doing some rough body play and spanking a female sub near where you were sitting. A nice example that you don’t need a ton of toys or weeks of practice to have a good, kinky time. Sometimes your body and hands are quite enough. [100% agree]
I also agree the Christopher scene in the Vending area was cute and hot.
DomCon is over but it was fun sharing it with you. I enjoyed meeting so many awesome people and look forward to continued friendships.
For those of you experiencing a kink convention “sub drop”, don’t worry… DomCon L.A. is in May!
After the chunky DomCon review posts, I’m happy to return to the “Ask” feature of my blog. Unfortunately, Sean O’Toole has Covid (feel better soon!), so I’m doing it on my own.
[While that’s true… the other side is that he asked me to send him the questions yesterday afternoon, and I completely forgot! I just got a new laptop and was doing the transfer from one to the other–something I absolutely loathe. So yeah, he’s sick, but it was my fault. You’ll hear from Sean next time]
Question: I’m part way through the Teachers Cruising for Bottoms book, and my first thought was to ask my wife if her break room was anything like that. (Since she was an elementary teacher, I thought probably not but who knows?) Do you take anything from real life as inspiration for your books?
Answer: I’d be remiss if I didn’t say that I hope your wife’s elementary break room was NOT like this book! But I know that’s not what you mean. 🙂
Seriously, though, I incorporate many things from my life into my books. I think it’s difficult not to have at least a little piece of me show up somewhere, even in the ones that are not like me.
That said, I get asked this a lot, and it’s in another blog post somewhere, which of my books are most like me? Again, the caveat is there’s some of me everywhere. But the two books that are most like me are the “Mistress Managed” trilogy and “Dreamscapes: Behind the Cyber Veil” Books One and Two.
Question: I’m amazed that you actually read everyone’s responses in the Creative Surveys.
Answer: In bdsmlr–which is a sexually explicit smedia site–I do Creative Surveys every Tuesday and Friday, along with a results post from the previous one. They’re a fun way to interact. Search my blog for #BJF Survey or #Creative Survey for the latest one… and vote! It’s open to everyone 18+
I originally created the surveys to give people a reason to return to my blog–a tip I received upon entering the platform of smedia. In the beginning, I just posted the results. Then I posted people’s longer responses, where they reflected upon the scenario and provided details of why they chose a particular answer.
Now, it has become a place where people can ponder and expand their kinky fantasies in a safe place. Many voters respond regularly, making it easier to get to know them better.
Because the responses can get lengthy and people reveal a lot about themselves personally, I added a “My Comment” section, where I respond individually to each person… much like I did with the Comment section on the DomCon review posts.
Now back to the question… I enjoy reading the responses and getting to know people’s tastes. So, be amazed all you’d like, but it’s fun for me! 🙂
Question: I know you have some people send you or tag you on things with purple… I don’t mean to encroach on their thing.
Answer: This comment and how lengthy the Creative Survey Results posts are make me worried that people who come across them may think it’s an already-established, inside group, not open to anyone else.
NOT TRUE!
The more the merrier (that seems to be the theme of this post). There’s always room for more, and you’ll find that the people who are cornerstones of the Creative Survey welcome new people. It’s a great group!
As for the purple posts… people quickly realized that purple is my favorite color. To honor that, they will share with me a post containing purple, and I reblog it.
Finding content and feeding my smedia blogs is the most time-consuming thing I do. So when I see a shared post in a DM, I immediately open it in a separate tab for when I need to queue or post live. Please, send me them–and any post you think would fit on my blog. It helps!
This question is often asked in the negative, too… “I see you reblogging so many of other people’s posts but not mine.” It’s nothing personal. It has everything to do with time; or the lack thereof.
I don’t have time to scroll through everybody’s blogs to find a post that mentions me. In fact, I rarely scroll through blogs. If you see a post where I’ve replied to someone else’s comment, 99.9% of the time it’s because that person shared the post with me in DM.
Want me to reblog something you’ve said to me or a particularly witty caption you’ve created or something similar? Share it with me in DM.
Question: Do you have any deepthroating tips? I got a new toy recently and it has been pretty difficult to get down.
Answer: I received this question awhile back and answered it in DM. I said to use sore throat spray that numbs your throat. It will take away the gag reflex so you can practice. Sex stores sell something similar but it’s more expensive.
As things go with hearing something then finding it everywhere you look… I came across this blog post in bdsmlr this week. So I will add it here. While the post itself only contains words, the site as a whole is most definitely NOT SAFE FOR WORK.
Happy practicing!
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Thanks for the great questions and comments!
For other kinky advice, check my blog archives.
Happy reading, happy savings and Happy Holidays,
~B.J.
